Art of letting Go...

When we truly love someone, we give our best and let that person see the pureness of our intention. But sometimes that person makes us cry and hurts us for the wrong reason. That someone must have loved us but has not loved us enough to make him stand for what he truly felt. By this time you are faced with the seemingly impossible task of forgetting. We have burdened ourselves long enough but we still can't get out of this emotional trap. Let us remember that the more we try to forget someone we love, the more painful letting go will become.

Sometimes we never had to take that person out of our hearts at all, for he will always be there no matter how hard we try to drive him away. It isn't his presence that make this difficult but it is our stubbornness to accept our destiny that aligns forgetting next to impossible. We keep a cold face but deep in our hearts, there is still lingering hope for reconciliation. Somehow, we still believe that we can rekindle the small embers and relight the fire that once burned in our hearts. These thoughts give us hope but it also breeds the seeds of loneliness and despair.

The only way to forget is to accept and the only way to move is to look ahead and let the footprints of the past be blown away by the wind of time. Only then can we find the real happiness in our hearts.


-i've got this one from my couzin and this hold true for myself...